Wow! It’s the New Year. It’s 2018! Anyone else feel refreshed? I know I do. And it’s because I took a social media break over the holidays.
You’re probably thinking it isn’t possible to take a break from social media because it’s accessible EVERYWHERE! And you’re right, it is accessible everywhere, but that doesn’t mean you have to access it. I bet it’s a totally foreign concept. At least for some of you reading this. It was for me. I check my social media every single day and it’s addicting. But that was the problem. I found myself grabbing my phone every time I heard the “ding” go off telling me there was a new notification. I knew I had to take a break.
The holidays were coming up and I knew it would be a time where I was super busy with events, family stuff, shopping for presents and cooking. I also knew, I would be really tired at the end of the day from running around so much. I had always planned on “unplugging” for a bit and this was the perfect time to do so. My husband thought I was totally nuts because I check my phone about 30 times a day for the notifications, the emails, the contacts from clients and business partners. He didn’t think I could do it, but I did, and it felt so darn good! Here’s how my day without social media went.
First, I scheduled the time I’d be disconnecting. I set the days and the hours. I decided to start on a weekend I knew we’d be busy with shopping and running around town getting ready for Christmas. When I first got up, I checked my emails for the important stuff and then shut off the sound on my phone. I knew, throughout the day I wouldn’t be able to hear the new notifications and it would make it easier. I tossed my phone in my bag and forgot about it.
When we got home, I immediately brought my phone upstairs to our bedroom, plugged it in and left it. I walked out of the room without my phone and got busy with other things. I had to clean the house, do laundry…I knew I’d be busy. And busy I stayed. I kept myself occupied so I wasn’t thinking about it too much.
At the end of day, I went right to bed without even picking up my phone. I had the BEST night’s sleep that night and I’d like to think it’s because my mind wasn’t running like a ticker tape with notifications, things to do, events to remember, etc. It was peaceful.
When I woke up the next day, I didn’t immediately reach for my phone and I noticed that. The experiment made me realize just how attached I was to my electronics and what’s going on on social media. And I bet a lot of you are too. But why? Part of me says it’s because we all just want to be connected with each other in some way. But the other part of me says it’s just because life has progressed that way.
Either way, it was a great experiment and something I plan to do again in the future. I encourage you to schedule a day on your calendar and unplug. When you do, report back and tell me how your experience went.